\[a_{4} + a_{8} = 35;\ \ a_{3} + a_{21} = 65\]
\[a_{1} + 3d + a_{1} + 7d = 35\]
\[2a_{1} + 10d = 35\]
\[2a_{1} = 35 - 10d;\]
\[a_{1} + 2d + a_{1} + 20d = 65\]
\[2a_{1} + 22d = 65\]
\[2a_{1} = 65 - 22d;\]
\[35 - 10d = 65 - 22d\]
\[12d = 30\]
\[d = \frac{30}{12} = \frac{5}{2} = 2,5.\]
\[2a_{1} = 35 - 10d = 35 - 25 = 10\]
\[a_{1} = 5.\]