\[4x^{2} - (x - 3y)^{2} =\]
\[= 4x^{2} - \left( x^{2} - 2 \cdot 3xy + (3y)^{2} \right) =\]
\[= 4x^{2} - x^{2} + 6xy - 9y^{2} =\]
\[= 3x^{2} + 6xy - 9y^{2}.\]